B. Attitudes towards life

Looking on either the bright or the black side of things: optimistic pessimistic

Outward-looking or inward-looking (i.e. to the world around one or to one's own in world): extroverted introverted

Calm or not calm with regard to attitude to life: relaxed tense

Practical, not dreamy in approach to life: sensible down-to-earth

Feeling things very intensely: sensitive

 

C. Attitudes towards other people

Enjoying others' company: sociable gregarious

Disagreeing with others: quarrelsome argumentative

Taking pleasure in others' pain: cruel sadistic

Relaxed in attitude to self and others: easy-going even-tempered

Not polite to others: impolite rude ill-mannered discourteous

Telling the truth to others: honest trustworthy reliable sincere

Unhappy if others have what one does not have oneself: jealous envious

 

 

D. Opposites

Many positive words describing character have clear opposites with a negative meaning

Positive warm and friendly kind nice, pleasant generous (= happy to give/share) optimistic (= thinks positively) cheerful (= happy and smiling) relaxed and easy-going strong sensitive   honest (= always tells the truth)

Negative cold and unfriendly unkind horrible, unpleasant mean (= never gives to others)   pessimistic (= thinks negatively)   miserable (= always seems unhappy)   tense (= nervous; worries a lot; not calm) weak insensitive (= does not think about others' feelings) dishonest

 

Jane is very tense at the moment because of her exams, but she's usually quite relaxed and easy-going about most things.

I think the weather influences me a lot: when it's sunny I feel more cheerful and optimistic, but when it's cold and raining I get very miserable.

He seemed a bit unfriendly at first, but now I've got to know him I realise he's very warm and kind.

The shop assistant told me that the dress I tried on looked better on people younger than me. I thought that was very insensitive of her, but at least she was being honest, I suppose.

 

E. Character in action

People often talk about qualities of character that you may need in a work situation. Again, some of these words come in pairs of opposites: one positive and one negative.

Positive hard-working punctual (= always on time) reliable   clever, bright (infml) flexible   ambitious

Negative lazy (= never does any work) not very punctual; always late   unreliable (= you cannot trust / depend on someone like this) stupid, thick (infml) inflexible (= a very fixed way of thinking; unable to change) unambitious (=no desire to be successful and get a better job)

 

Some pairs of opposites do not have a particularly positive or negative meaning:

He is very shy when you first meet him because he finds it difficult to talk to people and make conversation; but when he knows people quite well he's much more self-confident.

People often say the British are very reserved (= do not show their feelings), but when you get to know them they can be very emotional like anyone else.

 

F. Using nouns

Some important qualities are expressed through nouns.

One of her great qualities is that she uses her initiative. (= she can think for

 

 

herself and take the necessary action; she does not need to wait for orders all the time)

That boy has got no common sense (= he does stupid things and doesn't think what he is doing). His sister, on the other hand, is very sensible. (= has lots of common sense)