Against this backdrop, Kate Burnham was courageous enough to break her silence. While Americans still tolerate a grisly level of daily violence, talking openly about domestic abuse is an important beginning. Burnham's decision to speak out about her past means that, for the first time, she has people to turn to for help. «I used to address the world with my head down)), she says. «Now I can walk into a room with people and look someone in the eye when I'm talking to them. For the first time in many years, I can honestly say that I like myself». She has a new job, loyal friends and a new credo. «The one thing I know is, when you keep secrets, it's dangerous».